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The Cinderella Story!


February 11, 2016

Having the right kind of mindset reminds me of Cinderella and her three nasty sisters! Only this is not the fairytale! It can actually be a reality that sabotages the success you want.

Think of this! Your subconscious is all or one of the nasty sisters who suddenly pops up with these negative thoughts just when you can do without them. Cinderella with her prince is what happens when your conscious mind over-rides those negative messages and you get to slip on the glass slipper knowing that your possibilities are endless and you can achieve the results you want.

Although it no longer creates a big challenge for me, I’m human so those messages still pop up once in a while. The only difference is that I know how to move past the negatives quickly and easily so that the ugly voice can be shut down as quickly as it shows up.

This ugly sister is the voice that creates overwhelm and stress, the one that pushes you into procrastinating. The one that creeps in with lots of “What If’s” or “I cant’s.” However, with just a few little tweaks you can change your thinking, which in turn will allow you to change the results in your business and your life.

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Shout, Scream, Freak out Or…!!


February 8, 2016

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“The truth is that stress doesn’t come from your boss, your kids, your spouse,
traffic jams, health challenges, or other circumstances. It comes from your thoughts
about your circumstances.” – Andrew Bernstein, author

Stress, such a little word but it can have big repercussions. If you don’t learn how not to internalize stressful situations, it won’t only affect your physical health it can also affect motivation, hope, beliefs and any success you want in life.

There are going to be stressful situations in life for everyone at one time or another! That doesn’t mean whatever you are dealing with, has to turn into negative thoughts and feelings.

Last week I had more stressful situations than I have had in the last 2 years. The situation started on Monday and, didn’t finally get resolved until Thursday.

I had a choice. Shout, scream, throw my computer and phone across the room or, decide not to internalize it. Trust me, all those things ran through my mind the first few hours but I knew if I kept feeling that way I could make myself sick. So…….

I did deep breathing, I took breaks, I walked around my office instead of sitting when I was talking on the phone. By Wednesday, I was so calm it was a little un-nerving but dealing with things that way served me well. I didn’t get a headache, my body didn’t hurt and strangely enough it gave me time to think and re-focus.

Deal with stressful situations without freaking out and it will make you feel much more powerful.

‘Til Next Time
Have a peaceful week
To Your Success and Brilliance

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Is This You?


February 1, 2016

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“Happiness Cannot Be Traveled to, Owned, Earned, Worn, or Consumed.
Happiness is the Spiritual Experience of Living Every Minute With Love,
Grace and Gratitude.” – Denis Waitley

You don’t become happy because someone or something else makes you happy, you are the only one who can make you happy.

You are responsible for how I you feel. You can either be happy or moan about everything. You don’t have to be right about everything, You don’t have to worry about what other people think and, although it’s nice to be complimented, as long as you know that what you are doing is right, you don’t need other people to tell you ‘well done.’ If you are living your life the way God intended, with peace, simplicity and love you’ll be happy.

I’ve said this before and I’ll remind you again. Be grateful for what you have, give thanks for where you are and live in the present. Each day is a gift, so give yourself the gift of enjoying your days.

Have a really great week!
‘Til Next Time
To Your Success and Brilliance

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9 Steps to Go From Fear to Freedom


January 27, 2016

The majority of successful people have had to deal with fear at some time or other, in fact the road to success is often littered with fear and uncertainty. The biggest difference between someone who is wildly successful and someone who is not, is that highly successful people in business usually have the courage to take risks and significant action consistently.

The following nine steps can make it much easier:

  1. Decide you really want to succeed. Most people never actually decide to do or
    achieve anything significant; at best they ‘kind of try it out.’ However, once you’ve
    truly decided to go for your dreams, there’s not much room for fear or doubt! You
    made the decision now go for it. Embrace risk. Fear is just a feeling so make it a
    friend not a negative.
  2. You CAN make the sales call or give a great presentation. . Ask for whatever it is
    you want. A big part of being successful is doing things that other people are too
    afraid to do.
  3. Be prepared. Many stresses, challenges and concerns are things that you can
    anticipate. Take the time to find solutions and put them into place before you
    need them. When you think that something challenging could come up just be
    prepared and you will alleviate any worry.
  4. Go with the flow. Don’t live in the past or the future. Whatever has happened
    before is over and if you are anxious about future results based on your past
    experience and the worst doesn’t happen, you will have worried for nothing.
  5. Focus on a positive result. Most people look for the worst and they expect it to
    happen. When you expect the best you will find it much easier to take action.
    There may be some situations along the way that you’d rather not have but they
    won’t be stumbling blocks if you have things in place instead of perceiving them
    as a brick wall.
  6. Learn to relax. Stress is a state of mind so even in stressful situations, you
    don’t have to internalize it. Use deep breathing, it makes a huge difference. You
    have control over your mind which is connected to your physiology so use it to
    your advantage.
  7. Fully engage in your life. Stay away from the news which is way too negative
    most of the time. Find something interesting to do with your time, something you
    really enjoy so that any stressful situations are lessened. Take a piano lesson, go
    hiking or skydiving! Whatever you choose It will make your life more interesting, too.
  8. Recognize that you are enough. Even if you have things to learn, it doesn’t
    mean you are not capable of doing what you want to do.. Research the resources
    you need and, do everything you can with the resources you have at present.
  9. Start small. Make a list of everything you need to do. Put them in order from
    the least fearful to the most. Make a decision to take action and get the item
    at the top of the list done first. When that’s complete, move on to the next item.
    Only focus on one thing at a time. Multi-tasking in business really doesn’t work,
    it just creates more work and you end up with many things half finished than one
    thing completely finished.

The only way to truly be free is to accept that fear is part of life and from time to time it might rear it’s head but, when it occurs you can move forward anyway.  Fear can only get in your way if you allow it.    If you follow the suggestions above you can go from fear to freedom today!

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How to Say No When Necessary!


January 25, 2016

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“When you say no to the wrong people, it opens up the space for the right
people to come in.” – Joe Calloway

Most entrepreneurs are in sales in one form or another, which means, there’s a good possibility that people will be saying no to what you are offering as often as they say yes!

However, just because someone says no to something you are offering, doesn’t mean they don’t like you neither are they rejecting you as a person. They just don’t want whatever it is you are offering at that specific time. It’s not usually personal.

The same thing happens in reverse. You need to learn how to say no when necessary.

No is one of the most powerful words in the dictionary and although it may feel uncomfortable using it at times, it also means you are taking care of you.

If you feel you can’t say No because you don’t want to hurt someone else’s feelings or because they might not like you, I encourage you to work on changing this way of thinking. It doesn’t happen overnight but with patience and time you will find yourself only saying yes to what you want and no to what you don’t! In turn this will allow you to stop worrying about what other people think of you.

Learn how to unlock your own power and use ‘no’ when appropriate. You might find it will make a difference to your life and, you will feel much more powerful.

To Your Success and Brilliance
‘Til Next Time
Have a wonderful week

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